Mindvalley Blog

Dan Savage On The 3 Things We Get Wrong About Sex, Love And Monogamy

Bestselling author and sex advice columnist, Dan Savage, shares the 3 biggest myths about sex, love, and monogamy — and how these false beliefs are holding our relationships back.

The Biggest Lies We Believe About Love And Sex

Even though we arguably live in the most sexually liberated era yet, we’re still fed a lot of misinformation about sex and love that keep us from satisfying our own desires and the desires of our partners.

But how do we learn the basics of such a taboo subject?

In this frank and humorous talk from Mindvalley A-Fest Ibiza 2017, Dan Savage shares the 3 biggest myths we believe about sex and love that keep us from fulfilling our romantic relationships.

And the great thing about Dan? He replaces the taboo and shame around sex with empathy, humor, and realistic sexual ethics based on research and experience.

The Best Highlights

  • (4:08) — Dan shares the 3 most damaging lies about sex, love, and monogamy he’s learned after 25 years as an advice columnist;
  • (18:13) — What practice you should “steal” from gay relationships to enhance your sex life;
  • (23:43) — The 4 magic words that every couple should have in their vocabulary to improve their romantic relationships;
  • (31:34) — Why humanity needs to rethink monogamy, infidelity, and true commitment.

Watch the video above if you want to learn how to increase passion, commitment, and understanding in your romantic relationships.



Education for People Who Refuse to Fit into the Ordinary World

Add comment