How To Quickly Reframe Your Current Reality To Avoid Conflict

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Summary: What’s the best way to approach a difficult conversation or a heated argument? Vishen Lakhiani and Dr. Srikumar Rao share a simple technique to reset your current frame of mind to avoid conflict.

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We all tend to avoid difficult conversations where strong, negative emotions might come up. Even CEOs, senior executives, and managers dread conflict.

But avoiding sensitive topics because we’re afraid of someone’s response doesn’t reduce tension.

Have you ever been in a room with someone who was clearly angry or upset, but didn’t have the courage to face those they were upset at? The tensions just increase… which sometimes leads to massive mistakes that could sabotage your work life or wreak havoc on your relationships.

How To Avoid Conflict

How do we learn to approach each other in a way that avoids conflict?

The bestselling author of Happiness at Work and one of the top MBA professors in the world, Srikumar Rao, explains a tactic to quickly reframe your current way of thinking to avoid conflict.

Watch this 4-minute snippet from Srikumar Rao’s Masterclass on Personal Mastery to hear a funny example of how he solved a potential clash between his kids.

Have you used any tactics to reduce tension? 

Dr. Srikumar Rao

Dr. Srikumar Rao

Dr. Srikumar Rao is the trainer of Mindvalley's The Quest for Personal Mastery Quest. He's also an international speaker, bestselling author, and one of America's most popular MBA lecturers. His courses are among the highest-rated at many of the world’s top business schools, including Columbia University and The London Business School. Widely recognized as a pioneer in the field of motivation and resilience, Srikumar Rao regularly consults leading executives and entrepreneurs from the likes of Google, Microsoft, IBM, United Airlines, John & Johnson in areas like meaning, purpose, performance, and leadership, helping them discover deep meaning and become more engaged in work.
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Dr. Srikumar Rao

Dr. Srikumar Rao is the trainer of Mindvalley's The Quest for Personal Mastery Quest. He's also an international speaker, bestselling author, and one of America's most popular MBA lecturers. His courses are among the highest-rated at many of the world’s top business schools, including Columbia University and The London Business School. Widely recognized as a pioneer in the field of motivation and resilience, Srikumar Rao regularly consults leading executives and entrepreneurs from the likes of Google, Microsoft, IBM, United Airlines, John & Johnson in areas like meaning, purpose, performance, and leadership, helping them discover deep meaning and become more engaged in work.
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